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Like People, and Make Time for Them

This is definitely the question for our times. 


I think we must genuinely like people. Make time for people. Slow down. We must give up righteous superiority. Any place we feel like we are superior to another person is a lie. We have a lot to learn from people that we have differences with.


Ellen Tait


La Reina, Chile


Reprinted from the RC e-mail discussion 
list for leaders in the transformation of society


(Present Time 207, April 2022)

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